Saturday, July 23, 2011

Speaking the same language from the heart....

One of the most common questions we get asked of our trips to Africa is:
Do they speak English? ... can you communicate with them?


Most of the time (in Uganda) the answer has been - yes.  Many of the children there speak some English - if they are in school.  But sometimes you have to improvise.  It is amazing to me how well we seem to be able to communicate many time without words... or at least without words we are able to understand with our ears.  God has a way of breaking down those 'language barriers' that we as humans tend to see as an obstacle.  I think God sees them as an opportunity to demonstrate His love and glory!


We had one such experience as we had the honor and privilege of spending a morning in the village and homes of several ladies in the Karamojong tribe outside of Jinja, Uganda.   This tribe is considered to be the poorest of the poor... the outcast.  They live on government land and pay rent for their very small mud huts.  We divided our team into groups of 8 and went with an interpreter from one of the local churches.  Our mission was to love on, fellowship with and teach these ladies a new craft that could be a source of income for their families.


I am convinced that God walked before us that day.  He had prepared the way, as well as the time that we would spend with these precious women.  We met a group of about ten ladies as they were sitting on mats under a large shade tree weaving baskets.  


They greeted us and immediately welcomed us into one of their small mud 'homes'.  

The room was probably no larger than 10'X10' with a single door opening and no windows.  It was constructed of mud and sticks with a tin roof.  The temperature inside the hut was upwards of 90+ degrees and the humidity was off the charts that day!  They were so excited to have us come.  We were told they had been waiting and preparing for our visit.  "Honored" is the word they used... we were the ones truly 'honored' and 'humbled' to be welcomed into this small home.  There was a bunk bed along one wall and a small wooden sofa type of bench.  They had white fabric pieces laid out for us to sit on.  Imagine (if you can) 8 american women crammed into this tiny hut sitting around the edge of the room on the lower bunk and wooden sofa.  There was a small 4x5' floor area in the middle of where we were sitting.  Two of the older ladies began to sing and dance for us.  Back and forth they danced in that small 4x5 area.  The more we clapped and yelled... the more excited they became and danced and sang.  I sat there marveling at the joy and excitement in their eyes as they 'welcomed' us to their home.  Was I really sitting in a mud hut, sweat dripping down my back, somewhere in the middle of Uganda, Africa... listening to the joyful song of someone who was honored at my presence?  REALLY?  And how often do I make a noise even remotely similar as I welcome and enjoy the presence of my Lord?  hmmm.....
We spent the next hour under the tree outside (so much cooler - relatively speaking) as these amazing women told about their group.  They call themselves the 'Widows and Needy'.  For you see of the 54 in their group only 6 are men.  The rest are widows or those ladies who have never married.  When we asked how many children, they laughed and said - "too many to count!"  




Their greatest desire is to purchase land of their own and build homes so that they will no longer have to pay rent.  They have a hard time making enough money to pay their children's school fees and therefore some can only go for one term and then return home the next.  They make crafts of baskets, woven mats, purses, necklaces, etc. to earn a small income by which they try to live.  
They are extremely poor and have very little.  Many of their children are not fully clothed and at times go hungry, yet these women are strong.  They work hard and press forward.  


 
They showed us how they weave baskets using the 'reed' from the inside of large banana leaves.  Pride showed on their faces as they brought out all the items they had to sell.  Our team raved and started 'jockying' for baskets and mats!  They got quite a 'kick' out of our love for their products.  We were then able to share with them a craft that we had brought with us.  


Liz and I demonstrated making two different types of 'friendship bracelets'.  They watched with great interest and then tried their hand at tying them.  We presented them with two large bags full of thousands of skeins of embroidery thread, scissors and bobbins that so many of our friends and family in the USA had donated for us to take to Uganda.  They were overwhelmed with our gift and beyond thankful.  They hugged that bags as if they were great treasures.  

These ladies are very smart, creative and driven!  I am confident that they will be designing very intricate patterns for their friendship bracelets very soon!  Hopefully this will be another source of income for them as they try to sell them in the market.


We then had just a short amount of time left before our ride was to pick us up.  We had the incredible privilege of being 'welcomed' into each of these ladies homes.  







They wanted us to come and visit.  To see where they lived and hear their story.  What an honor to be ushered into their 'homes'.  
We took a moment and prayed in each home.  Praying God's blessings of protection and provision on each lady and her family.  Many tears (as well as sweat) flowed as we moved from home to home.  


As our time was fleeing, and we were heading back to the tree to purchase the baskets... it began to pour down rain.  They quickly wrapped up the crafts and scrambled us all back into the original mud hut.  With a pile of 'goods' on the floor in a dark, crowded, hot, muggy, wet mud hut - 8 very white american women went to shopping!  We laughed and laughed as we tried to understand prices and add up our thousands of shillings.  (if only you could have seen the site.... with one of our girls sitting on the bench holding a calculator)  The rain POURED down on that tin roof making it almost impossible to hear.  All I could think, at that moment of utter chaos.... was that God was pouring down tears of joy - tears of love - tears of compassion on this small little group of women who could NOT speak a word of the same language, but had somehow through His love - formed a bond and had found a way to communicate how precious we were to each other.  They had shown us through their actions how much they loved and honored us.  How important and special we had made them feel by our visit.  We had connected with them as they showed us their creative skills at weaving and that opened a door for us to then share our 'craft' and gifts with them.  We told them (through the interpreter) that we wanted them to know that we loved them and that more importantly God loved them.  We sang a song for them about prayer.  "I will pray in Jesus name, and believe things will change.  For I know Jesus hears me when I pray, so I won't worry or be afraid.  I will pray..."  Our mission was to encourage them, and let them know they are NOT forgotten.  That they are loved, not only by us... but most importantly by God.  He does hear and He does care.


Even as I type this post... I am still amazed at how God knitted our hearts together that day.  Without a single word that we could share between us...only through actions from hearts of love.  It's not always about the words that we say... most definitely it is about our actions that speak much louder than any language!
 

Friday, July 15, 2011

And the story begins.....

Our first two days in Uganda found us working at two children's prisons around Kampala. Bret and I visited one of the two on our first trip in March.  You can read about that experience HERE.
We arrived at "M" on Wednesday morning our arms full of cartons of juice, biscuits (shortbread cookies), soccer balls, jump ropes, bubbles, 140 blank t-shirts, and a suitcase full of fabric paints and markers.  We were ready to paint shirts and PLAY!

As we entered the compound, we were led upstairs to 'sign-in'.  I asked the lady in charge HOW MANY children were there that day.  The number changes frequently, and we needed to be sure we had enough t-shirts for all... or we would not be able to do them.  She told me the number was around 130, but that many of the children were off at school and therefore we would only have about 60 to work with.  No problem!  We had PLENTY of shirts!  Thank you, Lord.  She also went on to tell me that they had just done a 'round up' in the city the night before and had brought in 220 children from off the streets.... but, we would not be working with them because they had to be 'processed' (health check, information collected on family, etc.) and would not be up in our area.  WOW!  Amazing that there could be 220 children wandering the streets with no one concerned for their whereabouts!

I told the team the plan for the morning and we headed outside to start passing out biscuits as the kids lined up for their 'breakfast'.  (a bowl of steaming hot porridge - resembling runny cream of wheat)  As the kids finished their breakfast they made their way into the large dining hall area and worship and prayer began.  Our group stood there - almost in a state of shock as we observed these kids PRAISING and WORSHIPING God.  

The feeling and emotion in that room was unbelievable.  As they went into a time of prayer - many dropped to their knees.  All praying out loud - yet individually to the Lord.  Tears fell on the faces of many of our team members.  What an incredible thing to witness.

The time came for us to introduce ourselves and share a word of greeting with them.  We then taught them a couple songs and enjoyed the time as we continued in worship.  The kids were very friendly, open and receptive to us being there.  We had formulated a plan to pass the shirts out according to size, and then have the kids sit at tables all around the room.  Others in our group were armed with lots of fabric paint and markers.  We began showing them how to write, draw and decorate on their shirts.  


 Such concentration and determination!




They LOVED it!! 
They loved being able to have their OWN shirt, put their OWN name on it, and decorate it however they wanted.  Many wrote something about loving God on their shirt.  

Several minutes into this very chaotic process, I heard my name yelled from some of the team members.  I headed over to where they were passing out shirts to find several of them with a look of fear in their eyes.  I asked what was wrong.  They held up their hands saying, "We are running out of shirts!  We don't have enough!" ... WHAT?  I could not understand HOW we could be out of shirts - we had counted them several times - 140 shirts!  Then I noticed kids continuing to come in through the double doors - and it hit me.  As they street kids were being 'processed', they were being released to come into our gathering.  I looked around... there were kids EVERYWHERE.  All the tables were full and they were now spilling on to the floor - laboring over their shirts.  

Right then, four more boys came through the door.  I went to the lady in charge and told her.  "We can not take any more kids.  We are not going to have enough shirts!"  She promised that would be all.  I looked at the girls on our team and said, "Just start PRAYING!".  There was a line of about 10 kids or more, still waiting to receive their shirts.  I headed to the middle of the room to help with paints and again heard my name YELLED.... as I turned, this time I saw RED faces of my team members with tears flowing down! (I am crying now as I write this...)  They were holding up a huge pile of shirts!  "Diana, LOOK at what we just found!?!?!"  SOMEHOW.... SOMEWAY.... GOD had multiplied those shirts!  I still don't understand the full story.  But when they started checking all the pockets and corners of those suitcases, they found a huge pile of shirts in a pocket of the suitcase holding all the paints and markers!  Whether or not they had been there all along and the girls had just overlooked them... or whether they had just 'appeared'... we will never know - or need to know.  All I do KNOW is that GOD provided in a major way in the dining hall at "M" on that Wednesday morning.  God SHOWED UP to remind us that HIS heart is for the orphan... the lonely... the forgotten... the deserted... the broken child.  HE has NOT forgotten them - because He LOVES them with an everlasting, unfailing LOVE!  And as we told them that day - no matter WHAT they have done, He will always LOVE them and FORGIVE them.
We left a 'mark' on "M" that day... lots of fabric paint and markers on the tables, benches and floor of the dining hall... but the BEST 'mark' of all was the look on their faces and the pride in their eyes as they wore their new shirts.  
A sign of HOPE and LOVE!

As the room was being cleaned up I headed outside.  My heart overflowed as I watched activity EVERYWHERE!  There was a huge group playing 'football' (soccer) with Liz and Rebecca, kids running catching frisbees, and many little ones drawing with chalk or popping bubbles as they floated in the air. 







I stood there remembering just three short months ago the 'eerie' quiet of this place.  
No activity.  Kids just 'existing' with nothing to do.  
Now... I saw only JOY and EXCITEMENT.  
The JOY that we see on our own children's faces when they experience the fun of just being a kid!  I walked across the yard to the wood shop.  In March it was locked up and deserted.  The equipment, we were told was in need of repair and there was no money to purchase supplies.  As I walked through the door... again tears flowed as I watched 5 boys hard at work making furniture, doors and windows.  Each one stopped and 'posed' for me to take his picture - beaming with pride over his handiwork.  




I praised each of them... wishing Bret was there with me to see the progress.  Thank you Lord for giving these boys an outlet.  Thank you for allowing them to use the gifts and abilities YOU have given them to do something productive and feel a sense of value and worth!  
HOPE.... that is the only word to describe the day!
Everywhere I turned I saw HOPE.  These kids desperately NEED someone to CARE.  Someone to show them that there is HOPE in Jesus Christ.  That their lives can be different.  Sixty Feet is doing an amazing job of bringing LIFE, LOVE and HOPE to these remand homes.  I am beyond thankful that they have now partnered with Visiting Orphans to allow our teams to come in and be the 'hands and feet of Jesus' to these very lonely kids.
My heart still breaks as I think of them.
Knowing that everyday is NOT like the day we spent at "M" - but praying that many will GO to pour into their lives and give them a new direction and HOPE in Jesus!

Monday, July 11, 2011

SAFELY .... home!

After two very long weeks in Uganda and Kenya.... we are HOME!
I cannot tell you how good it feels.  
This trip was much different from our trip in March.
Very physically exhausting and much harder in many ways.  
With the 'harder'.... comes many more 'God moments' as well!
Amazing encounters with some incredible people!


The stories and pictures will begin to unfold... hopefully later today.
Right now... loving on my kids, doing laundry (not by hand - like in Kenya!), 
and catching up on sleep.
I came home this time with a very bad head/chest cold... 
so I am sure it will take me a little while to get back on top!  


THANK YOU for your PRAYERS!!!  
We FELT them... and SAW them in SO many ways!! 
You will NOT believe the stories to come!
For now.... 
I am beyond THANKFUL for HIS protection, provision, love and faithfulness!

Sunday, July 3, 2011

Uganda - no pics loading yet...

With very limited internet access.... I was going to give you a few pics from Uganda - but they are taking forever to load.  We have not even had time to load them all on the computer yet!  This has been a VERY busy week - always on the go!!  We are very tired, but in great spirits!  Amazing to SEE the hand of GOD in SO many ways this week..... many stories to come once I have time to sit and process it all.

A 'five loaves and two fish' experience as we watched God multiply t-shirts right in front of us at the prison.

An amazing morning spending time in the homes of many of the Karamojong women.  They shared their crafts with us and then welcomed us into their homes.  UNBELIEVABLE!!

HUNDREDS of kids... hugging, singing, playing with bubbles and balloons... the JOY in their faces when they receive a BALLOON!

Sweet fellowship with Ugandan pastors.  Amazing to hear their stories and see their love and passion to share Jesus with their own people!

TODAY... we head to Kenya.  A very LONG day of travel.  We arrive at 3:00am.  Please pray for safety and good health.  Several on our team have intestinal issues and sore throats.

Gotta go!
Love to all!!

OH... we passed out the first wave of dresses... they LOVED them!  Pics on that coming soon too!!

Tuesday, June 28, 2011

Uganda Team - Part 1

We are here... after a VERY long 24 hours of flying.  All of our luggage made it!  We just finished our 1st day on the ground.  Here is a quick summary of our day that I just posted on Facebook.

Amazing day at the Remand Home. Was able to share the gospel message of Salvation... incredible to be standing there telling this group of kids that Jesus came to be the payment for their sins.... to forgive them.... to wash them white as snow (that one was lost in the translation... no context here for SNOW) we all got a good laugh at that one! They sang with us... "I will pray in Jesus name and believe things will change - for I know Jesus hears me when I pray, so I won't worry or be afraid... " tears in my eyes as 120 sang at the top of their voices. Thank you Lord for such a good day!  

It is almost mid-night here and with only about 10 hours of sleep since Saturday.... I am heading to bed!!  SO appreciate ALL your prayers.  Please don't stop!!  We are heading to the second 'Remand Center' tomorrow.  Many kids with very little HOPE!  Pray that we can be a light for them.... that they will see the HOPE of Jesus in us!

By the way.... wish you could have all seen Liz's face as we made the hour drive from the airport to our guest house!  Overwhelmed, shocked... those might be two good words!  SO fun for me to see her reaction.  She had a great time today with all the kids at the Remand Home.  Many stories to tell!!

More updates to come --- and pics (promise)!

Friday, June 24, 2011

34 hours and counting...

After weeks of planning, organizing, purchasing and packing... we are READY TO GO!!
We leave on the 6:10am flight Sunday morning.
Please PRAY for....

  • good weather
  • safe flights
  • sleep on the plane
  • all luggage arriving
  • all team members arriving :)
  • good health
  • safety in transportation (we will be on the road A LOT this trip!)
  • effective ministry on the ground
  • and that many orphans will know they are loved!!!
  • (not only by us, but most importantly -  by their HEAVENLY FATHER!)

We will be blogging as internet is available.

Our first day on the ground - Tuesday the 28th we will be at one of the 'remand' facilities.
Click HERE to see my post about this facility when Bret and I were there in March.
We are partnering with the ministry of Sixty Feet.  Click on their name to read more about
their ministry so you can specifically pray for these kids.
We will be there all day Tuesday at one facility and then another on Wednesday morning.
These kids live and survive in very rough conditions.

We are going with arms full....
taking t-shirts for them to paint, bracelets for them to make, lots of sports equipment, games, and hoping to purchase milk, biscuits and fruit on the way there Tuesday morning.
(they rarely EVER get milk, meat or fresh fruits & veggies)
We are also taking LOTS of love from so many of you who have donated money and supplies.
THANK YOU!!!  


Most of all we are taking the LOVE of JESUS to this very desperate place!

We are SO very thankful for each one of you...
partnering with us in PRAYER as we go to SERVE!
Next post ... from AFRICA!!

Sunday, June 12, 2011

Two weeks and COUNTING!!

I can't believe it -
2 weeks from RIGHT NOW,
we will be somewhere over the Atlantic Ocean
heading for AFRICA!!!

3 months ago - TODAY,
We boarded a plane headed for Uganda
.... and our lives will NEVER be the same!

God has been stretching and challenging us
in ways we can not explain.

But we are confident of this...
- HE has a PLAN
- we are CALLED to OBEY
- we are walking ONE STEP at a time.

We have seen HIS hand in AMAZING ways over the past two weeks!
We are now almost completely FUNDED for our trip!

UNBELIEVABLE!

Our bags are OVERFLOWING with donations
given by SO many family and friends.

Our hearts are BEYOND full of
LOVE 
THANKFULNESS 
EXCITEMENT
and
ANTICIPATION
for all that our two weeks in Africa will hold!

We are incredibly honored and humbled to hear that we have
the opportunity to spend an entire day among the people in the
Karamajong tribe.  We are taking embroidery thread to teach the
women how to make 'friendship bracelets' that they can potentially sell to
help provide them with some income for their families.

If you have any embroidery floss (like DMC or others)
that you would be willing to donate - please let me know.

Please PRAY that God will use us to bring
His HOPE and LOVE to this very poor
and outcast tribe of people.

We know that God is ORDERING our steps on this trip and
that HE has a plan for each and every day!

Please pray with us as we are TRUSTING Him for...
SAFETY
PROTECTION
EFFECTIVE MINISTRY
GOOD HEALTH
and MANY LIVES TO BE IMPACTED...

Thursday, June 2, 2011

Let the PACKING & TRUSTING begin....

24 days and counting....

Liz & I are now if full swing of packing donations!
We have been SO blessed by having SO many things donated....
we are scratching our heads as to how to fit it all in!
We have two bags packed with boys clothes and 'little ones' things
such as baby blankets, onsies, board books and toddler clothes. 
(would love to fit in those pull-ups and shoes!)
We have not begun to pack all the dresses being sewn...
currently we are at over 50 DRESSES
and there is yet another sewing party happening
in Wilmington, OH - Friday night!

Bags of Silly Bandz have been given by the
K-4th graders at our kids' Christian school as 
they were challenged to 
SHARE GOD's LOVE,
by giving something they have...
And look how many flip-flops
the 5th & 6th graders
at our school donated during a fun day where they
could 'wear a pair - donate a pair'!
My heart is BEYOND over flowing with 
Love
Joy 
and
Thankfulness
as we begin the process of 
packing it all up... praying we can
squeeze in as much as possible to
BLESS
the children
of Uganda & Kenya!

God is continuing to
STRETCH ...me
as I wait with CONFIDENCE
knowing that HE can, and will
PROVIDE the rest of the needed funds.

We (Liz & I) still need almost
$3000
to fully fund our trip!
Tickets are being purchased this week.
We have ENOUGH for the tickets...
I smile... because I am learning 
HE PROVIDES 
EXACTLY
what we NEED....
WHEN we NEED IT!

If you are able to contribute to the costs 
of this trip...
You can
click the link HERE to donate on-line.
Choose "June 26-July 9 Uganda/Kenya" 
and list DIANA PERKEY
as the "Specific Team Member"
OR
you can send a check to:
Visiting Orphans 
(Diana Perkey in MEMO line)
P.O. Box 668
Nolensville, TN  37135
(all gifts are tax-deductible)
THANK YOU for continuing to
pray for, support
and bless our family
as we move forward
one day at a time...
KNOWING that
God is the ONE
'ordering our steps'!